LIFESTYLE

Questions to ask before getting into a Relationship

Valentine Day is less than two weeks away, and a lot of people are planning on making their relationship official, or expand the relationship to the next level (Marriage or engagement). Before taking these steps, I would recommend everyone to ask his or her other certain questions, and these are questions that my friends and I came up with.

Once you are intimate how often would you and your significant other have sex? This is an important question because sex causes disagreement and conflict in a relationship. A partner might have a higher sex drive than the other which can lead to sexual frustration.

Do you believe in God, or any god?. This is a great question because religion differences can cause a conflict in a relationship. As a Christian, I would date someone that is a Christian because I want my children to be a Christian, and be raised in the way of the lord, and this can apply to any religion. If a Christian date a Muslim or a Hindu, one of them might want the child/children to follow his or her religion and vice versa.

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Are you comfortable with stereotypical jokes? This is more important to interracial couples because a person can make a joke about the other race and the other person might not be comfortable with the joke. I usually make a joke about every race including my race, so if my significant other do the same, I wouldn’t be offended instead I will laugh with him. To others, stereotype jokes/racist jokes can be offensive and to others, it might not.

Will you consider yourself an angry person? You should know what kind of person you are getting into a relationship with. Is it someone that get angry a lot? Or a very cool person. You will have an idea on how to handle the relationship since you are aware of your significant another character. You don’t want to get into a relationship that will lead to domestic violent

How many girls and boys have you been with? .Based on the health aspect, you want to be sure that your partner is healthy. Also, some people care about the number of people their partner has been with, and this can be a problem in a relation while others don’t care.

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Why the previous relationship failed. This is a great question because you can learn from the relationship, and prevent what happened from happening to your relationship.

What do you look for in a relationship? This is a great and essential question because you want to know what kind of relationship you are getting into. You should know if someone wants to commit to you, wants a short-term, or maybe a friend for benefit relationship. It is also great for someone to ask his or herself this question. I know what I want in a relationship, and I wouldn’t settle for less. You can watch my YOUTUBE VIDEO for the film version.

 

 

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